Bobo's Void
Bobo Matjila
Welcome to Bobo’s Void: The podcast for people who are too smart to be happy and too tired to pretend otherwise. We talk love, relationships, philosophy, capitalism, and why everything feels off. New episodes drop weekly. Teasers on Spotify. Full unfiltered chaos lives on Patreon.
Welcome to Bobo’s Void: The podcast for people who are too smart to be happy and too tired to pretend otherwise. We talk love, relationships, philosophy, capitalism, and why everything feels off. New episodes drop weekly. Teasers on Spotify. Full unfiltered chaos lives on Patreon.
the case for dating a sociopath (full episode)
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👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Today we have two dilemmas: a man who loves his girlfriend so deeply and so genuinely that he cannot stop cheating on her. and a woman who feels absolutely nothing for her man — and yet shows up in the most loving ways every single day anyway. we asked who the better partner is. the answer will bother you. Bobo also gave the women listening a masterclass in how to be less of a clown. you're welcome. featuring bell hooks, antisocial personality disorder, the inflation of male attention, and the uncomfortable conclusion that we are all much closer to sociopaths than we'd like to believe. let us know ur thoughts down below - would you (or have you) ever dated a sociopath?
👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com okay so your 20s are for making mistakes and your 30s are for finally understanding them. In this episode, we break down the real curriculum of adulthood: failed timelines, collapsing friendships, capitalism, confusion, fuckboys and the shocking discovery that stability, is in fact, hot. think of this as a practical guide to surviving the two hardest decades of your life, for people who were promised "finding yourself" but mostly found stress lol. let us know in the comment section below how you are surviving these times!
👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com in this episode, Bobo finally admits that she does, in fact, have adhd. we talk about what adhd actually is (not just “getting bored easily”), the three types, how it shows up in daily life (especially if you’re the inattentive type like me) and how it plays out in relationships. but most importantly, we unpack the pressing question: does adhd make you a bad partner?
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👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/130972336?pr=true Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com this week, we talk about why friendships get messy so quickly - and why you’re no longer (and could never possibly still be) friends with your high school bestie. we get into the politics of hotness and the myth of the equal friendship. plus: why friend groups are basically just soft dictatorships dressed up as sisterhoods. i also ask the question: what actually is a good friend? (and how do you know when you’ve become the villain in your own group chat?) let us know your thoughts down below! here's the viral clip referred to in the video: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKdg6tmsI91/?igsh=NnZuc3FqMjhkZXMw
👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. Click here to join the community and spiral with us: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com This week we ask the unthinkable: what if rich kids have it worse? We explore why happiness might actually belong to the broke, the middle class, and anyone still naïve enough to hope.
Trump’s tariffs tanked the economy. AI is coming for your job. Capitalism is coughing blood. So we did the only logical thing: gave up and started painting. In this episode, we talk about surrender, art, tariffs, religion and the weird mental clarity that comes when you stop trying to win a game designed to kill you. 👉 Hear the full spiral on Patreon Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com
👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. For the price of one sad iced coffee a month, you can fund our existential spiral: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com This week we're talking about clutter (aka all the stuff in your house). The process of decluttering my house has led me down a spiral of unpacking my attachments to my past and the ways that material possessions have me by the throat. We talking about hyper-consumerism, minimalism and the normalization of hoarding. do u reaaalllyyyy need all the stuff that you own? let us know if you're doing this week's homework assignment, and as usual, let us know your thoughts down below!
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👉 Enjoyed this episode? There’s way more unfiltered, unhinged, and uncensored content on our Patreon. For the price of one sad iced coffee a month, you can join the community and fund our existential spiral: Patreon.com/Bobosvoid Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com Would you still crave romantic love if no one had ever told you it existed? This week we’re talking about love, money, and mimetic desire. This week, we spiral about mimetic desire, dating in the age of capitalism, and the question on everyone’s mind: are you in love - or just getting tricked (or tricking)? Also: Trickin’. Is it emotional labor, or just modern romance? Let's discuss
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hello sweet peaches, 👉 If you liked this episode, imagine what we say when we think no one’s listening. To hear the full conversation, click here, where the unfiltered chaos lives Follow us on Instagram/TikTok/Youtube @bobos.void Email us love letters (or hate mail): bobosvoidpod@gmail.com This week we're talking about what it really takes to set aside our childish ways and grow into full sized adults (on the inside an outside). We unpack all the insidious obstacles to adulthood and some of the things we can all do to find the courage to leave Plato's childish cave.
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hello sweet pumpkins, this week we're talking about the ways that secularism has failed us. we talk about the utility of religion and the implications of its absence. we imagine what a new religion might look like, and where the future of spirituality is headed.
hello sweet peaches, this week we're talking about family! we talk about the new age rejection of family (as shown by anti-baby protests in south korea), and the rise of the DINKS (or DINKWADs, for those with dogs). We question whether the constructs of marriage and the nuclear family are outdated, And; we answer the age old question: how do you deal with difficult family members? let us know what you think in the comment section below!
thank you for watching! for the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/reimagining-92627398?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link This week we explore the question: what would healing look like in a world that values mental wellbeing? we discuss some of the (macro and micro) obstacles that get in the way of accessible and effective healing and we unpack a few steps we could take as a culture to get us all closer to holistic health. as usual, let us know your thoughts in the comment section below!
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hello sweet peaches, this week we're talking about all the insidious ways trauma shows up and slowly corrodes loving relationships. we discuss some of the signs that you're in a trauma bond as well as the ways society and its institutions encourage (and even glorify) these toxic dynamics.
hello sweet angels, this week's episode is about parenting! we take an in-depth look at all the ways parents traumatize their kids, and what it really means to be a good parent. we talk about re-parenting ourselves and what the future of parenting looks like. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE HERE https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-to-not-f-ck-89176960?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
hello sweet angels, here is our review of the barbie movie! we talk about barbie's analysis of the human condition, gender and her very (futile) pursuit of freedom. let us know your thoughts in the comment section below! for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobosvoidclips https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3
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hello my sweet mangoes, this week we're talking about the Jonah hill shenanigans, the tragedy of therapy talk (has therapy ruined an entire generation), and the absurd (but maybe quite reasonable) expectations we've developed as a culture around dating. as usual, let us know what you think! did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3
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hello sweet mushrooms, this week's episode is all about friendship (or rather, the friendship recession that we've found ourselves in) we talk about how to cope with outgrowing friendships. the ideological divides that end friendships, and the way space can be used to either facilitate or disrupt healthy friendships. as usual, we'd love to hear your thoughts! and most importantly, we hope to see you at our first group therapy! :) did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/friendship-82381826?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3
hello sweet mushrooms! in this episode, we delve into the intricate world of navigating money in intimate relationships. Money matters can often stir up emotions, ignite conflicts, or even strengthen the bond between partners. Join us as we uncover the secrets, challenges, and strategies that couples face when it comes to financial dynamics. the name of the show we referenced in the episode: 'How to get rich' - on netflix as usual, let us know your thoughts in the comments below! did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-to-not-let-83364044?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3
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first - im so sorry about my voice!! it turns out i have a lung infection (but didn't want to give yall nothing), so I hope you can still hear me- if not, there are subtitles available in the video! but anyway, this week we're talking about situationships! specifically - why are they so common? we talk about all the forces: economic, social and cultural, that have made situationships so commonplace. and lastly, we talk about how we can overcome the culture of lovelessness that makes situationships a social norm, and instead cultivate fulfilling and long lasting relationships as usual, let me know your thoughts! did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
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hello sweet angels, this week, we're back with a debate episode! The topic: Is UBI the bad bitch she claims to be? would our lives be better or worse if we eradicated labour and just gave everyone free money? But more importantly, we discuss what the most important elements are in creating a life worth living. as usual, let us know your thoughts! did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/debate-should-we-79565998?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
hello sweet pumpkins, this week we're talking about our minds ... and all the weird and wonderful things it does to cope with reality. are you psychic/gifted/spiritually attuned ... or just mentally ill? and where do we draw the line between spirituality and psychosis? we talk about the ways that illness is socially and culturally defined by the environments that mold us. we unpack the reasons people tend towards spiritual beliefs/practices, and we discuss the ultimate question: do people need delusion to cope with reality? as usual, we'd love to hear your thoughts! comment down below and let us know what you think :) did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/are-you-psychic-79196632?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
hello sugarplums! this week, we present to you our brand new segment: show and tell! we talk about some of our favourite tv shows at the moment and discuss whether art can be a tool for healing (or worsening) trauma. we unpack the role of religion as an art form and get into a debate with mango about reparations. let us know, do you like this new segment? if you have any specific art pieces (shows, albums, songs, movies, books etc ...) that you'd like us to get into, let us know in the comment section below. thanks for listening :) all the shows references in the episode: Fleishmann is in trouble Bojack Horseman The new avatar movie Atlanta Chewing Gum Blue Therapy did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/why-white-people-78518099?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
hey sweet mushrooms! this week, we're unpacking an age-old question: can men and women *really* be just friends? we talk about the state of gender relations, the madonna-whore complex, the horrors of marriage, and lastly, we interrogate all of the ways society undermines our ability to have harmonious romantic, sexual and platonic relationships. did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
did you enjoy this episode? to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/chatgpt-ai-and-77624694?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link for more fun videos like this, please support us on patreon at www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=142d5562dc9f4fcf KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
this week, we're unpacking your dilemmas. In this particular dilemma, we talk about why so many women end up with emotionally unavailable men. we unpack this problem from an evo-psych perspective, a trauma perspective and a socio-political perspective. hope you enjoy! if you enjoyed this video, please consider supporting us on patreon, www.patreon.com/bobosvoid to watch the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/answering-your-77327917?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link keep up with us here: https://linkin.bio/bobos.void Follow us on instagram at www.instagram.com/bobos.void Follow us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid
hello sweet angels, this week we're talking about soul mates! what is a soul mate and why do we need one (or so desperately long for one)? we unpack our deeply existential desires for safety, understanding and intimacy, and how that relates to (our equally) deeply existential desire to bring life into the world. we interrogate the extent to which our deepest impulses are 'natural' vs 'toxic' and the moral implications of pursuing those impulses. as usual, we'd love to hear your thoughts in the comment section below!
to watch the rest of the episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/76158672 if you enjoyed this video, please consider supporting us on patreon, www.patreon.com/bobosvoid keep up with us here: https://linkin.bio/bobos.void Follow us on instagram at www.instagram.com/bobos.void Follow us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid Hello sweet peaches! this week’s episode is near and dear to my heart - because it’s about the tumultuous (and surprisingly relieving) journey of aging next year I turn 30! and I have a lot to say about it we discuss the pleasures and sorrows of becoming older, we unpack society’s nonsensical attachment to youth and we take a deeper look at how age affects us culturally, politically and psychosomatically. as usual, we’d love to hear your thoughts down below! Thank you for listening 💗
to listen to the full episode, click here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-to-stay-75261511?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link keep up with us here: https://linkin.bio/bobos.void Follow us on instagram at www.instagram.com/bobos.void Follow us on TikTok at www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid hello sweet peaches this week we're talking about long-term love. we unpack Michelle Obama's interview where she talks about her relationship with Barrack and the struggles of navigating long-term love. we debate the difference between teaching someone how to love you vs mothering men in your relationships. we discuss the difference between struggle love vs sincere love. and so much more! As usual, I'd love to hear your thoughts. comment down below and let us know what you think :)
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hello sweet aliens! get your edibles out! this week we spiral. we try to get to the bottom of who started the big bang, and most importantly why?? we discuss the big question: which is more significant - your birth or your death? and we unpack god's relationship with the devil. do they hate each other or do they love each other? i would love love love to hear your thoughts down below. TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
hello sweet jellybeans! following the adam levine controversy, this week we take a deep dive into the act of infidelity. can cheating ever be morally justified? can we take the conversation further and argue that cheating can *sometimes* be an act of love, or is it always abhorrent?? we talk about the role of honesty in our romantic relationships and discuss the extent to which honesty strengthens vs harms love. as always, I'd love to hear ur thoughts below. i've emotionally prepared to be roasted for my takes in this episode hehe. *sending you luv* TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon BONUS EPISODE THIS WEEK! (woo!) this week we're discussing social media and all of the insidious ways that it's killing us and our communities. we dive into the ways that social media affects how we perceive ourselves and others, as well as the ways it's changed our priorities ... and our skin suits. but most importantly, we take a look at the collapse of friendship and how that's coincided with the rise of the vertical screen.
this one is pretty self-explanatory lmao. hope you enjoy! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH US https://www.instagram.com/bobos.void/ https://www.tiktok.com/@bobosvoid KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donavon.mp3 https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
hello sweet sugarplums! today's episode is all about the afterlife! Donavon and i discuss our theories and anxieties on life after death, the purpose of existing in a skin suit, and we answer the ultimate question: is death an end to suffering or a continuation of suffering? I'd love to hear your comments down below! :) TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https://twitter.com/BoboMatjila KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donnynnon https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
welcome to our most trippy episode yet !! in this episode, we delve into the neurochemical effects that psychedelics have had on our brains. we talk about the lessons we've learnt, particularly the importance of forgiveness. we also explore the idea of violence and how it intersects with justice. and so much more!! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https://twitter.com/BoboMatjila KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donnynnon https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
In this episode we talk about human fallibility and the effects of trauma on our ability to give and receive love. We deconstruct the idea of ~feeling broken~ and the way it’s been socialized into us through capitalism. We talk about decommodification as a means of feeling whole, but most importantly as a means of feeling mentally stable .... and so much more!! would love to hear your thoughts down below!! :) enjoy! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https://twitter.com/BoboMatjila KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donnynnon https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
in this episode, we talk about modern love and all the ways it intersects with politics. we explore the age-old question "is love political?" we talk about all the things that sustain love, as well as the things that undermine it. we differentiate between healthy love and unhealthy love. we dissect whether or not love is *actually* subjective and we imagine the possibility of a universal idea of love. and so much more !! TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https://twitter.com/BoboMatjila KEEP UP WITH DONAVON https://www.instagram.com/donnynnon/ https://twitter.com/Donnynnon
in this episode, i chat with donavon about cancel culture, safe spaces and the role of the artist during ecological/political/social collapse. TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https://twitter.com/BoboMatjila
new episodeeeee :) in this episode, i expand on the idea of healthy love being boring, and by extension, the idea that a healthy life is a humble and simple life. not one marked by extravagance or excellence. just one that is characterized by banal simplicities and the ability to be content with the the ordinary. i hope u enjoy my ramblings ! please share with me your thoughts on what healthy love and more importantly, what a healthy LIFE is :) TO LISTEN TO THE REST OF THE EPISODE, SUBSCRIBE TO MY PATREON: www.patreon.com/bobosvoid SUBSCRIBE TO THIS PODCAST https://open.spotify.com/show/4JaUYskqSSD3dXXngWbgwx?si=ao_M9xMdTPu-fZiK341UbA KEEP UP WITH ME https://www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila/ https://twitter.com/BoboMatjila
whew - here's an extra long episode with friend and psychology/philosophy enthusiast Mbali! We talk in depth about the intersection of psychology and white supremacy. We discuss african spirituality and whether or not it can exist alongside whiteness. AND; we unpack what black, brown and indigenous people can do to survive, and even better, thrive, in spite of all the whiteness we're forced to live with. white people: this may be a very uncomfortable listen. but nevertheless, enjoy!! keep up with Mbali here: instagram.com/_mbaliza_